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Thank You Ulcerative Colitis

11 year old with ulcerative colitis

a recent picture of Michelle’s daughter

Intro:
I am a mom with a child with Ulcerative Colitis. I reside in Ross, Ohio in the United States. I spend my days ordering colostomy supplies, checking lab results and making doctor appointments.

Thank You Ulcerative Colitis

In late July and early August, we were in California on vacation. My eleven year old was enjoying Disneyland and swimming in the ocean at Venice Beach. By the middle of August, my daughter started having nausea and vomiting. Her doctor thought it was anxiety for starting a new school. She saw her doctor on Wednesday and was rushed to the hospital on Thursday when she collapsed at school and after two long weeks at the hospital was diagnosed with UC. They tried a steroid infusion but it didn’t work. My eleven year old had to have total colectomy and a temporary colostomy. But I just wanted to thank Ulcerative Colitis. I wanted to thank UC for taking my healthy child and making her sick. I want to thank my daughter’s immune system for attacking her large intestine so badly that she had to lose her large intestines. I wanted to thank UC that my daughter has to go through two more surgeries to reconstruct her small intestine to her new rectum and return her stoma to her small intestines. I wanted to thank UC for making me having sleepless nights for worrying about hemoglobin and iron levels. I wanted to thank UC for making me get up every night at 3am to check and make sure my eleven year old’s colostomy bag isn’t too full. I wanted to thank UC for making my eleven year old exhausted for going to the grocery store. I wanted to thank UC for all the days my child cries because life isn’t fair.

But most of all I want to thank UC for giving my child a purpose. Because she is determined to beat you and not let you take her joy. One day I will watch her swim in the ocean again and I will thank you Ulcerative Colitis for making me appreciate the little moments that I get to share with my child.

written by Michelle K

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7 Responses to Thank You Ulcerative Colitis

  1. Lydia October 11, 2014 at 6:30 am #

    Hi
    Definitely try probiotics and coconut oil (soft gels or capsules). And avoid or eliminate as much yeast based products as you can. UC has been linked to yeast (Candida) and coconut oil will mop it up. Since I tried this and kept to it I am no longer always looking for a loo or planning my day so ‘comfort’ stops are built in. Even going for a walk is a pleasure now. Do hope you find some help from the responses from some wonderful people. All the best.

    • Tom
      Tom October 12, 2014 at 2:16 am #

      Lydia

      Did you even read the post?

  2. Adam
    Adam October 11, 2014 at 6:31 am #

    Michelle,

    You both are IBD rockstars. Keep the fighting spirit alive and the best regards to you and your daughter:) Thx for sharing. -Adam

  3. Erin October 11, 2014 at 7:12 am #

    This is so awesome! Thank you for your positive thoughts and comments. I love your attitude:)
    Never lose hope, and keep fighting the good fight.

  4. Jeff October 11, 2014 at 9:44 am #

    With that type of attitude and toughness the sky will be the limit for your daughter!

  5. Ella October 11, 2014 at 1:51 pm #

    Dear Michelle, you are an amazing person! Your comment made me realize how important is to really appreciate every little moment and have a hope!
    Thank you for sharing with all of us , all the best for you and your daughter. Im sure she will sweam in the ocean and you will enjoy watching her!

  6. Tita October 13, 2014 at 12:03 pm #

    She will have better days! Now, her body needs to recuperate after the flare and the surgery, and then she will get better and better! Perhaps try vitamin B to get her energy levels up.

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